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toward our goals, and we beat ourselves up if we are anything other than perfect in that pursuit.
Is it any surprise we are often over-tired, malnourished, and depressed?
Introduction ................................................................................................ 5 Chapter 1: Self-Care Using CBT and Mindfulness .................................. 8 A Brief History and Explanation ................................................................ 9 Chapter 2: Silencing the Inner Critic ...................................................... 12 Mindfulness ............................................................................................. 13 Positive Self-Talk .................................................................................... 14 Hypothesis Testing .................................................................................. 15 Chapter 3: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies ..................................................... 16 The Law of Attraction .............................................................................. 17 Chapter 4: Looking After Looks ............................................................. 19 It’s the Little Things – How to Feel Taller ................................................ 19 How to Beam ...................................................................................... 21 Putting Your Best Face On ..................................................................... 22 Grooming ............................................................................................ 23 Chapter 5: Taking Care of Your Health .................................................. 26 Getting Started With a Fitness Regime .............................................. 28 Nourishing Nutrition and Sleep ............................................................... 29 Sleep ................................................................................................... 31 Chapter 6: Letting Go of Regrets ........................................................... 33 Do Regrets Fade With Time? .................................................................. 34 HAPPINESS THROUGH SELF-CARE 4 That Which Has Been Done… ............................................................ 35 Chapter 7: The Power of Gratitude and Self Compassion ................... 39 Loving Kindness Meditation and Gratitude ............................................. 41 Chapter 8: Say Goodbye to Social Anxiety ........................................... 43 Use CBT and Become Socially Bulletproof ............................................. 44 Chapter 9: Changing Your Environment ............................................... 46 Awe and Wonder ..................................................................................... 47 The Healing Power of Nature .................................................................. 48 Your Home .............................................................................................. 48 Chapter 10: Why There’s Really No Need for Low-Self Esteem .......... 50 Conclusion – Your Blueprint for Self-Care ............................................ 53